Tuesday, October 21, 2008

It could ALWAYS be worse

With all that is going on in my life right now I must remind myself of all the blessings I receive from my Heavenly Father daily-- they are many and wonderful!! And after reading this article CLEAN WATER is definitely at the top of the list. ENJOY!

Monday, October 20, 2008

Proposition 8-- A LONG post-- BUT good!

I am pretty straight forward with my political positions and I have been known to email and call members of Congress, the Senate and even the president on occasion. My political views are deeply connected to my religious views although there are many Latter Day Saints that vote quite the opposite than me on Election Day. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints does not support candidates or political parties, but on occasion they do support bills or moral positions. So it is with Proposition 8-- The LDS church has asked members to do all in their power to support a bill in California that would make marriage between a man in a woman the law. I believe that there will be unsettling consequences for families and especially children all over the country if Prosition 8 fails. I wanted to quote from a fantastic article that I recently read from Meridianmagazine.com on the issue. Glen Greener outlines what failure to pass Proposition 8 (marriage between a man and a woman) could mean for our country. This is not just a California issue because if this bill fails most states will be required to recognize marriages in California despite their laws about marriage. Here is the article:

"1. Children in public schools will have to be taught that same-sex marriage is just as good as traditional marriage . The California Education Code (§51890) already requires that health education classes instruct children about marriage. Therefore, unless Proposition 8 passes, children will be taught that marriage is a relation between any two adults regardless of gender. There will be serious clashes between the secular school system and the right of parents to teach their children their own values and beliefs.
2. It will lead to more government intrusion into private lives . A photographer in Albuquerque refused to photograph a lesbian couple's civil union ceremony. The New Mexico Human Rights Commission fined the photographer $6000 even though there were other photographers willing to accept the business. And this in a state where same-sex marriage is still illegal.
3. It will lead to speech monitors. An employee at the City of Oakland was threatened with termination for using the terms “natural family, marriage and family values” while discussing a public issue with co-workers. The Ninth Circuit Court of Appeal backed up the district court saying administrative efficiency in a government office is more important than free speech. Today it's municipal employees; tomorrow … who?
4. Anti-discrimination regulations will become more important than religious beliefs. In Vista, California, a lesbian couple sued a doctor who refused to perform a requested artificial insemination because of the doctor's religious beliefs. Although another doctor offered to do the procedure, the California Supreme Court held unanimously that the “1 st Amendment's right to the free exercise of religion does not exempt defendant physicians here from conforming their conduct to the … antidiscrimination requirements.” An elective procedure, no emergency involved, another doctor willing to do the procedure. Anti-bias laws will outweigh religion.
5. Churches will be sued over their tax-exempt status if they refuse to allow same-sex marriage ceremonies in their religious buildings open to the public. While pastors, priests, ministers, bishops, and rabbis may not be forced to conduct such marriages themselves, they will be required to allow such marriages in their chapels and sanctuaries.
6. Religious adoption agencies will be challenged by government to give up their long-held right to place children only in homes with both a mother and a father. Catholic Charities in Boston has already closed its doors because of the legalization of same-sex marriage in Massachusetts.
7. Religions that sponsor private schools with married-student housing will be required to provide housing for same-sex couples, even if counter to church doctrine, or risk lawsuits over tax exemptions and related benefits.
8. Ministers who preach against same-sex marriages will be sued for hate speech and could be fined by the government. It has already happened in Canada, one of six countries that have legalized gay marriage. If a government agency such as the Alberta Human Rights Commission can stop a minister from teaching his church's doctrine about marriage, then it won't be long before everyone's free speech rights will be in jeopardy.
9. It will cost everyone more money. This change in the definition of marriage will bring a cascade of lawsuits, including some already decided adversely. Even if courts eventually find in favor of a defender of traditional marriage (highly improbable given today's activist judges), think of the money – your money, your church contributions – that will be spent on legal battles.
Think of a world where Human Rights Commissions – unelected bureaucrats with unfettered authority – are judge, jury, and executioner of anything they feel is antagonistic speech toward same-sex marriage and its practitioners.
Think of a world where the judicial system relegates long-held religious beliefs to second-class importance behind anti-bias laws and a newly discovered protected class of people.
Think of a world where the public school system is required to teach values and beliefs to your children that may conflict with your own.
Think of the very real threat to your parental rights, your free speech, your freedom of religion."

I don't think this is a doomsday prediction. I think we are already seeing some of these examples in our courts if we pay attention to what is happening in our country. I do not believe that hate or anger are ways to combat this issue or any other. I just pray for wisdom and prudence as people consider their votes for 2008.

On a little lighter note: Ashley and I did call to encourage people to get out and VOTE Yes on Proposition 8. It was a great experience and I spoke with many nice people on both sides of the issue. Ashley was leaving a message with one family on the answering machine and he was trying to say, "Have a great day!" But his words became garbled and he said instead, "Have a gay day!" Oh well-- he did correct himself in the end!

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Back to Books

I have had it with politics recently. It is a little too stressful for me with pregnancy, job stuff and just thinking about the direction of our country and the world. I can't watch the debates because I get pretty steamed at both candidates-- I am not a fan of either's politics, though I agree more with McCain than Obama. So, I have been reading in the evenings instead of TV or much else. I like to go into my own little world and enjoy the lives of fictional people-- most of them are not worried about who will be president, what bills will pass, what new taxes we will have and what party will be the majority in the senate (it will probably be democrats across the board.)

About 2 months ago I began the Harry Potter series again from the beginning. I love Harry Potter world... I love that with each book J.K.Rowling becomes a better author. I love how she knew the end from the beginning and makes all the books work together. For example-- Aberforth (Dumbledore's strange and very opposite brother) is mentioned in passing in Book 3 or 4 (can't remember which) and then Harry and some friends go to the Boar's Head tavern (where he works) and meet him in Book 5 and then he is the surprise character with the blue eye (the same color as Dumbledore's) in Book 7. That is just one of the many examples of how she fits things together. I love Harry Potter! It has been thrilling to read again and this was my 5th time with book 4! The best part is that Ashley is rereading them with me, so we can compare and discuss what we like--it is great!

A couple of days ago I was reading a friend's blog who LOVES the Twilight series. She posted about Midnight Sun-- Twilight told from Edward's perspective. Apparently someone posted most of the draft she was working on online (really slimy thing to do). So, in response she decided to post what she had written on her website for her fans to read. I had read the first chapter of Midnight Sun and the world from Edward's view is much more interesting than from Bella's, so I began to read what she had posted from the book. I think it was her best work yet. Breaking Dawn was just okay for me. It seemed rushed at the end and I missed hearing from Edward, Alice, Carlisle and other characters. I also thought the end was a little too easy and happy, but Elizabethan novels tend to be that way and I love them, so I can cope. But, Midnight Sun was so interesting-- the internal battle of Edward-- he goes from predator to protector and from loathing Bella to loving her. I hope she finishes it, because I think it will be her best work yet. I love Edward's internal struggles and if you are an Edward fan, this book will make you love him even more. If any of you have good book recommends please let me know!

Monday, October 13, 2008

My new career path...

Okay, so it is not really a career path, but a part time job that I know that I will enjoy immensely. I work for a company called Education, Travel and Culture as a coordinator between the company, schools and host families to bring foreign exchange students to live and study in the US. Our company has just opened up a branch in this area and I am helping to open the area by talking to schools and find host families. I will work directly with students to make sure that all is well between them and the host families. I will also work with schools to see how many students they can/will take. I am really excited, because this is the perfect job for me-- I love travel and meeting new people. If you know anyone who would like to be a host family send them my way! I will let you know how it goes, because this is the first OFFICIAL JOB I have had in many years... Most employers don't count family budgeting, cooking, teaching, changing diapers, chauffeuring and all the other things I do daily as job experience, so I am grateful to be given a chance to work at ETC. On the flip side of the coin I can also take groups to other countries (if I have enough teens that are interested) on short exchange programs. Maybe I will make it back to Spain one day after all!!!

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Surprise

Surprise!!!!!!!!!
Some of you may already know because you have
seen me recently, but we are expecting
baby number 4! We are so excited!
It hasn't been the greatest pregnancy, but
seeing the ultrasound with all the cute little baby
makes it all worth it. We do know the sex of the baby...
So, do you want to know????
Cute baby foot...
The baby waving, "hi."
It's another girl...
Yes, we will be Ashley and the Rabonettes forever.
Ashley says that he has run out of girl names and
we struggle with what to name this little sweetie,
because we never agree.
But, I am sure she will have a beautiful name in the end.

Please don't make too much fun of my dear husband--he
has to put up with enough living with us. And just imagine when
Hannah is 18, Ellie 15, Riley 13 and this little one 11.
Have pity on the poor man...
But, we are all excited (although Hannah told her
kindergarten class she is hoping we adopt a boy next!)
One very funny story... The girls have wanted to come up with a name for the
baby so, they keep randomly saying, "oh this would be a good name."
The other morning before church Ellie said, "I have a perfect name for
the baby!" Then she exclaims excitedly, "Lucifer!!!!"
I start giggling under my breath, so that I won't hurt her feelings
and Hannah looks at her in shock and says, "You want to name the
baby after the Satan!" Just a side note... I don't think that
Ellie even knows who the Satan is. We don't scare our kids with boogyman
stories of Satan when they are young, so she had absolutely no idea
what we were talking about. Poor kid-- it sure was a funny moment though.



Monday, October 6, 2008

Cute girls

Just some pictures of the girls. This is Riley
and Ellie in the backyard. Isn't beautiful?
I love autumn!

Hannah doing a little hair washin'. She can
wash herself and Ellie without any help.
It is nice to have such a big kid! She is a sweetheart
and she works really hard!

Talking on the phone is Riley's favorite past time.

She is always taking my phone and calling random people or

going on line... How she does it I don't know.
Riley's favorite food is GRITS! She is always

a mess after she eats it! Ashley and I battle every

morning about who gets to clean her up!


Snuggles!




There is a family of deer that live in our backyard.
They ate everything in our garden last year, but they are beautiful to
watch. There is little one in the mix...






Ellie's first day of preschool... How cute is she?



Thursday, October 2, 2008

The debate

Well-- I have received many "I told you sos" from Ashley over Sarah Palin's awful interviews with the news media. Watching her flounder and stumble through questions that I feel like I could answer better (which isn't saying much) is so painful to watch. It is like watching Ben Stiller and that cat in Meet the Parents over and over again-- too much. So, tonight is the debate with Joe Biden and I have to say that I am glad that I have a meeting to go to, so I can avoid her verbal fumbles. Ashley can give me all the high points and show me any particuliarly awkward moments on youtube. And here is my next revelation about this election-- I have little doubt that Obama will lose. AND that will have to be okay. I worry about who he will appoint to the Supreme Court, but hopefully the court itself will stay fairly conservative; I hope that he doesn't try to pass legislation bringing back the Fairness Doctrine, because I love my talk radio-- frankly I am an addict! :) (My two favorites are Jason Lewis who sometimes fills in for Rush but has a show in Minnesota and Walter E. Williams who is a professor of Economics, but also fills in for Rush-- brillant man!) I have worries about all his "programs" that he plans to fund by taxing "the rich." At what point do I become rich and get taxed up the ying yang (not that we aren't already)? And I worry about the threat of Islamic terrorism, but I have to have faith in God that all will be right in the end. So, I think I will be casting my vote for the liberterian candidate, Bob Barr. I am not 100%, but I sure am leaning that way. I'll keep the 3 of you who read my random thoughts posted--ha ha! Happy Thursday to all!