Friday, October 31, 2008

The REASON

This video presentation made my day! I first watched it with Hannah who desparately tried not to cry and then with Ashley, whose tears, like mine flowed freely. The CD is also phenomenal--
Be Thou Humble had me crying after a few bars-- the man's voice was beyond amazing. It is nice to be reminded why we are here and who we need to thank for all we have. It was a further testimony to me that Jesus is indeed the Christ, the Son of the Living God sent to cleanse, comfort, teach and save. May you all feel the beauty of this presentation.

http://deseretbook.com/reflections/

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Scorecards

This was on meridianmagazine.com this morning-- a family scorecard for each of the candidates. These are important issues that will effect how our children are taught in school and what kind of nation we will face in the coming years!

The Family Research Council has researched both candidates extensively, including their comments, their former votes and news reports to compile a voter scorecard on where John McCain and Barack Obama stand on family issues. It is a highly-detailed voter guide that drills down “on the issues important to the family so as to discover not only a candidate's position, but the depth of that position.” Footnotes and reference guides are given for further reading.
This scorecard certainly does not claim to cover every family issue, but does look at many of the ones that are or will be considered by the government. Though, in this scorecard, questions about poverty are not directly asked, by far the most significant influence on whether a child will grow up in poverty is his or her family structure. Children who grow up in intact families with married fathers and mothers are much less likely to experience poverty.
You can download a copy of this scorecard by clicking here . To see it requires a simple registration.

Here's a sample of the questions and positions:
Women's Health
Would you support a federal law prohibiting both human reproductive cloning and cloning for research?
McCain: Yes Obama: No
Do you support Medicaid-funded abortions?
McCain : No Obama : Yes.
Abstinence Education
Would you support or oppose a federal parental notification law before a minor receives an abortion?
McCain: Support Obama : Oppose
Would you fight to protect the integrity of federally defined abstinence-until-marriage education?
McCain: Yes Obama: No
Promoting Stronger Marriages
Do you support a U.S. constitutional amendment to define and protect marriage as the union of one man and one woman?
McCain: No Obama: No
If you do not support a U.S. constitutional amendment to define and protect marriage now, would any of these hypothetical future circumstances allow you to support such amendment?
*if one or several state supreme courts require their states to recognize same-sex marriages from another state.
McCain: Yes Obama: No
*if the U.S. Supreme Court requires states to recognize same-sex marriages from another state (thus overturning a provision of the federal Defense of Marriage Act)
McCain: Yes Obama: No
*if the U.S. Supreme Court requires the federal government to recognize same-sex marriages and/or partnerships for any purpose under federal law (thus overturning a provision of the federal Defense of Marriage Act)
McCain: Yes Obama: No
*if the U.S. Supreme Court rules that same-sex marriage is a right under the U.S. Constitution
McCain: Yes Obama: No
The Federal Defense of Marriage Act (1996) declares marriage to be the union of one man and one woman for all purposes of the federal government and declares that states do not have to recognize same-sex marriages from other states. Which of the following describes your position on the federal DOMA?
*I would veto any bill that would weaken any provision of the federal DOMA --McCain
*I would support repeal of the provision of DOMA that defines marriage as the union of one man and one woman for all federal purposes, thus freeing the federal government to give marital benefits to same-sex couples. -- Obama
*I would support repeal of the provision of DOMA that declares states do not have to recognize same-sex marriages from other states, thus leaving courts free to require such recognition under the Constitution's “full faith and credit” clause. --Obama
Homosexuality and Special Rights
Which of the following comes closest to your position on the Employment Non-Discrimination ACT (ENDA) which would grant federal civil rights protection on the basis of sexual orientation?
*I would veto any bill to provide federal civil rights protection on the basis of sexual orientation. --McCain
*I would sign a bill to give federal civil rights protection based on sexual orientation and “gender identity”. --Obama

Monday, October 27, 2008

Economic Times

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LfascZSTU4o
I heard this guy speak this morning on the news. He made this prediction or calculation 2 years ago and made another dire prediction today-- a depression much like what the US experienced in the 1930's. You do have to wonder where the economy is headed with the likelihood of Barack Obama as our president. And I don't think that McCain's economic plans are any better. I think the problem is that we as Americans want to have our cake and eat it too. We want the nicer car, house, boat, television-- whatever, but we don't want to pay for it until later. And when it comes time to pay if we don't have the money to pay the bill we want government to fix it, so we don't feel the pain. It is like a child and parent-- for example-- Today it was windy and chilly outside. I told Ellie as we were headed to the grocery store to put on her jacket, because it was chilly and she might get cold in short sleeves. She didn't want to put on her jacket, so when we got to frozen foods she was cold, whiny and wanted my jacket. I told her I put on my jacket because I knew it was cold and warned her to do the same, but she refused and so being cold was the consequence. Do you think that she will wear her jacket next time? We will see, but the American public in essence has left their jackets at home and now politicians want to give them a jacket, hat, gloves and a scarf instead of telling them-- next time bring your jacket.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

It could ALWAYS be worse

With all that is going on in my life right now I must remind myself of all the blessings I receive from my Heavenly Father daily-- they are many and wonderful!! And after reading this article CLEAN WATER is definitely at the top of the list. ENJOY!

Monday, October 20, 2008

Proposition 8-- A LONG post-- BUT good!

I am pretty straight forward with my political positions and I have been known to email and call members of Congress, the Senate and even the president on occasion. My political views are deeply connected to my religious views although there are many Latter Day Saints that vote quite the opposite than me on Election Day. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints does not support candidates or political parties, but on occasion they do support bills or moral positions. So it is with Proposition 8-- The LDS church has asked members to do all in their power to support a bill in California that would make marriage between a man in a woman the law. I believe that there will be unsettling consequences for families and especially children all over the country if Prosition 8 fails. I wanted to quote from a fantastic article that I recently read from Meridianmagazine.com on the issue. Glen Greener outlines what failure to pass Proposition 8 (marriage between a man and a woman) could mean for our country. This is not just a California issue because if this bill fails most states will be required to recognize marriages in California despite their laws about marriage. Here is the article:

"1. Children in public schools will have to be taught that same-sex marriage is just as good as traditional marriage . The California Education Code (§51890) already requires that health education classes instruct children about marriage. Therefore, unless Proposition 8 passes, children will be taught that marriage is a relation between any two adults regardless of gender. There will be serious clashes between the secular school system and the right of parents to teach their children their own values and beliefs.
2. It will lead to more government intrusion into private lives . A photographer in Albuquerque refused to photograph a lesbian couple's civil union ceremony. The New Mexico Human Rights Commission fined the photographer $6000 even though there were other photographers willing to accept the business. And this in a state where same-sex marriage is still illegal.
3. It will lead to speech monitors. An employee at the City of Oakland was threatened with termination for using the terms “natural family, marriage and family values” while discussing a public issue with co-workers. The Ninth Circuit Court of Appeal backed up the district court saying administrative efficiency in a government office is more important than free speech. Today it's municipal employees; tomorrow … who?
4. Anti-discrimination regulations will become more important than religious beliefs. In Vista, California, a lesbian couple sued a doctor who refused to perform a requested artificial insemination because of the doctor's religious beliefs. Although another doctor offered to do the procedure, the California Supreme Court held unanimously that the “1 st Amendment's right to the free exercise of religion does not exempt defendant physicians here from conforming their conduct to the … antidiscrimination requirements.” An elective procedure, no emergency involved, another doctor willing to do the procedure. Anti-bias laws will outweigh religion.
5. Churches will be sued over their tax-exempt status if they refuse to allow same-sex marriage ceremonies in their religious buildings open to the public. While pastors, priests, ministers, bishops, and rabbis may not be forced to conduct such marriages themselves, they will be required to allow such marriages in their chapels and sanctuaries.
6. Religious adoption agencies will be challenged by government to give up their long-held right to place children only in homes with both a mother and a father. Catholic Charities in Boston has already closed its doors because of the legalization of same-sex marriage in Massachusetts.
7. Religions that sponsor private schools with married-student housing will be required to provide housing for same-sex couples, even if counter to church doctrine, or risk lawsuits over tax exemptions and related benefits.
8. Ministers who preach against same-sex marriages will be sued for hate speech and could be fined by the government. It has already happened in Canada, one of six countries that have legalized gay marriage. If a government agency such as the Alberta Human Rights Commission can stop a minister from teaching his church's doctrine about marriage, then it won't be long before everyone's free speech rights will be in jeopardy.
9. It will cost everyone more money. This change in the definition of marriage will bring a cascade of lawsuits, including some already decided adversely. Even if courts eventually find in favor of a defender of traditional marriage (highly improbable given today's activist judges), think of the money – your money, your church contributions – that will be spent on legal battles.
Think of a world where Human Rights Commissions – unelected bureaucrats with unfettered authority – are judge, jury, and executioner of anything they feel is antagonistic speech toward same-sex marriage and its practitioners.
Think of a world where the judicial system relegates long-held religious beliefs to second-class importance behind anti-bias laws and a newly discovered protected class of people.
Think of a world where the public school system is required to teach values and beliefs to your children that may conflict with your own.
Think of the very real threat to your parental rights, your free speech, your freedom of religion."

I don't think this is a doomsday prediction. I think we are already seeing some of these examples in our courts if we pay attention to what is happening in our country. I do not believe that hate or anger are ways to combat this issue or any other. I just pray for wisdom and prudence as people consider their votes for 2008.

On a little lighter note: Ashley and I did call to encourage people to get out and VOTE Yes on Proposition 8. It was a great experience and I spoke with many nice people on both sides of the issue. Ashley was leaving a message with one family on the answering machine and he was trying to say, "Have a great day!" But his words became garbled and he said instead, "Have a gay day!" Oh well-- he did correct himself in the end!

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Back to Books

I have had it with politics recently. It is a little too stressful for me with pregnancy, job stuff and just thinking about the direction of our country and the world. I can't watch the debates because I get pretty steamed at both candidates-- I am not a fan of either's politics, though I agree more with McCain than Obama. So, I have been reading in the evenings instead of TV or much else. I like to go into my own little world and enjoy the lives of fictional people-- most of them are not worried about who will be president, what bills will pass, what new taxes we will have and what party will be the majority in the senate (it will probably be democrats across the board.)

About 2 months ago I began the Harry Potter series again from the beginning. I love Harry Potter world... I love that with each book J.K.Rowling becomes a better author. I love how she knew the end from the beginning and makes all the books work together. For example-- Aberforth (Dumbledore's strange and very opposite brother) is mentioned in passing in Book 3 or 4 (can't remember which) and then Harry and some friends go to the Boar's Head tavern (where he works) and meet him in Book 5 and then he is the surprise character with the blue eye (the same color as Dumbledore's) in Book 7. That is just one of the many examples of how she fits things together. I love Harry Potter! It has been thrilling to read again and this was my 5th time with book 4! The best part is that Ashley is rereading them with me, so we can compare and discuss what we like--it is great!

A couple of days ago I was reading a friend's blog who LOVES the Twilight series. She posted about Midnight Sun-- Twilight told from Edward's perspective. Apparently someone posted most of the draft she was working on online (really slimy thing to do). So, in response she decided to post what she had written on her website for her fans to read. I had read the first chapter of Midnight Sun and the world from Edward's view is much more interesting than from Bella's, so I began to read what she had posted from the book. I think it was her best work yet. Breaking Dawn was just okay for me. It seemed rushed at the end and I missed hearing from Edward, Alice, Carlisle and other characters. I also thought the end was a little too easy and happy, but Elizabethan novels tend to be that way and I love them, so I can cope. But, Midnight Sun was so interesting-- the internal battle of Edward-- he goes from predator to protector and from loathing Bella to loving her. I hope she finishes it, because I think it will be her best work yet. I love Edward's internal struggles and if you are an Edward fan, this book will make you love him even more. If any of you have good book recommends please let me know!

Monday, October 13, 2008

My new career path...

Okay, so it is not really a career path, but a part time job that I know that I will enjoy immensely. I work for a company called Education, Travel and Culture as a coordinator between the company, schools and host families to bring foreign exchange students to live and study in the US. Our company has just opened up a branch in this area and I am helping to open the area by talking to schools and find host families. I will work directly with students to make sure that all is well between them and the host families. I will also work with schools to see how many students they can/will take. I am really excited, because this is the perfect job for me-- I love travel and meeting new people. If you know anyone who would like to be a host family send them my way! I will let you know how it goes, because this is the first OFFICIAL JOB I have had in many years... Most employers don't count family budgeting, cooking, teaching, changing diapers, chauffeuring and all the other things I do daily as job experience, so I am grateful to be given a chance to work at ETC. On the flip side of the coin I can also take groups to other countries (if I have enough teens that are interested) on short exchange programs. Maybe I will make it back to Spain one day after all!!!