Friday, November 6, 2009

Revolution

Many of you know I am into politics a little bit (okay, a lot!). So, yesterday I went to the rally in Washington, DC to oppose healthcare reform put forth by the democrats. I don't know if it will stop it, but I can tell my children that I fought for freedom. I will post pictures later today-- (I am still in Raleigh at my parents' home.) I met a great group of women while I was there from www.asamom.org. It is women fighting for liberty in this country as mothers, wives and daughters of God. I would encourage you to have a look at there website. I met 2 ladies with this organization who came from near Atlanta, Georgia to the rally yesterday with their combined 5 kids-- all 4 and under. Kudos to them. It was a wonderful, invigorating experience and gave me a lot of hope that this country has good people and that our Constitution will prevail.

Then this morning I was sent 2 emails about this beautiful painting-- http://www.mcnaughtonart.com/artwork/view_zoom/?artpiece_id=353 that captures my feelings perfectly today. I cried as I watched the youtube video. http://www.ldsmag.com/youtube/091105nation.html I have so much love for the founders, soldiers, patriots and everyday citizens that have allowed this country to be great. Those same people have allowed for unprecedented access to the gospel of Jesus Christ not just by those in this country, but around the world. As we come up on Veterans Day and in light of all that is happening here in our great land-- I say my humble thank you.

(Okay, I can't get the dumb links to work this morning, but please cut and paste and have a look. I have to take a shower and get back to Charlotte!)

Thursday, October 29, 2009

The Power of Faith and the Atonement

Elizabeth Smart is amazing. She is. The media in general seem overcome with her ability to keep it together and rise above an experience that could have broken her forever. She has overcome. What most people don't realize about Elizabeth Smart is that she has learned that the Atonement of Jesus Christ is a real thing and it can change lives. It can mend lives. It inspires love, forgiveness, understanding, compassion, justice, peace, charity and all goodness. It heals where some may think healing could never take place. It gives hope to the hopeless, faith to the faithless and allows us to move past the difficulties of mortality. I am sure that Elizabeth Smart has had much counseling and may even have to have counseling in years to come. But, I submit that as she gives her amazingly difficult experiences to Our Savior, Jesus Christ she will continue to astound the world. His light will continue to shine through her. May God bless her in her years to come. She is an inspiration.

An article about her http://news.yahoo.com/s/ynews/ynews_ts958

Friday, October 9, 2009

Baucus Health Care Costs-- Whoa!!!

The Congressional Budget Office, a non-partisan organization out of DC which analyzes the cost of government programs and bills, sent a letter to Max Baucus of the Senate Finance Committee with how much we would be paying for his new health care plan. Most media outlets are touting this plan as a success because it is deficit neutral-- will not cause any further deficits. What they don't tell you is how it will be paid. All of these figures are for a family of 4 on the lowest cost Health Care Plan for 2016--oh, you think that is forever away. That is only 6 years away. Better get busy finding a second, third, fourth job or sell your home. Maybe a kid or two.
If you make $54,000 you will pay from $5,300 to $10,300--this being the maximum you will pay between you and your employer. Keep in mind that your employer can pay a much lower fine and drop you at any time and you would be responsible for the full amount. How about if you make $78,000-- you would pay from $10,800 to $15,800. Or if you make $90,100 you would be paying from $12,500 to $17,500. If you make over $102,100 there is no guarantee of how much you will be charged-- I guess whatever Nanci Pelosi thinks is best for your family to pay. Keep in mind that until 2 years ago I bought insurance through Blue Cross Blue Shield for my entire little family at the time--5 of us. It cost about $650. You can check out the entire letter at this link...http://www.cbo.gov/ftpdocs/106xx/doc10618/09-22-Analysis_of_Premiums.pdf
So, what are you going to give up?

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

It is bad when...

You know you have couponing bad when your 2 year old is playing ponies and one pony exclaims, "I have to go home now." And then the other pony replies, "that's okay I have to go to Walgreens!" LOL

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Our Summer

Here is my sister, Courtney, with my little Macy. Macy loves people's mouths. She will
stick her little hand right up your nose or in your mouth if you let her. Maybe that is how
I got her nasty cold.

I haven't written lately about my growing family. We had a busy summer and I just didn't have time to dedicate to blogging. (I did still manage to coupon some though-- you have to do something that you find fun and entertaining!) We helped find homes for Chinese exchange students, went to the pool all the time, took a week "break" in Raleigh and had all kinds of fun in between. Below are my girls with my Aunt Sara. Isn't she beautiful? I won't tell you how old she is, because she is a lady-- BUT if you knew you would be shocked. She looks great! I hope I look as good as her at her age-- not that she is old ;) She loves babies (just like most Parkers-- my grandmother, her mother, LOVED children.) She kept saying how good and well behaved the girls were in her home and then they started to get comfortable-- then the chaos began! Ha!


We went to Boone/Blowing Rock for the day and did a little hiking. It was a beautiful, blue skied day and about 75 degrees. Gotta love the mountains. Here is our "little" family posing on a rock... I was exhausted after this hike. It made me realize even more that I need to diet and get into shape again!

These are the Rabonettes. How fun would it be to have all sisters (not that I don't love my dear brothers ;0) But, to do girl stuff and have playmates all the time! They are the best of friends and I hope that they always stay close to each other!
I have been told by Ashley (and myself on the really hard days) that this is my last little baby. But, oh how I love babies. I really love them when they get to be so interactive and just so precious. I wish I had the patience of Michelle Duggar and could do 19 (she is pregnant again). But, I am just not there as many of you know ;0) I just love all the adorable things that Macy does. It is like I am discovering motherhood all over again. The girls really love on her, but sometimes that comes at a price. She gets beat up pretty good sometimes in the name of love. Ellie is particularly rough with her love at times and sometimes I have to take my screaming baby and leave the room, so I don't come down too hard on her. She really does love Macy and mean well. Macy is not as laid back as Riley-- not many people are that happy and care free. But, she is a pretty good baby. Just make sure you feed her on time. She loves to eat. She is my biggest baby by far weighing in at 17 pounds at 5 1/2 months. She is also very long for my babies, so maybe she will be tall like Ashley and not short like me. Sometimes I think that she is going to have red hair-- there is definitely red in her hair. But, babies change so much I don't know if it will stay.

We had a lovely woman from China stay in our home for 3 weeks. Mei was her name. Here she is with Hannah... They both loved Tetris, so this is where we would find them many days! She loved my little ones-- especially Macy and although her English was VERY limited it was a pleasure having her in our home. We all cried when she left. She came with another wonderful lady, Cathy, who stayed next door with Ning and Bernie. There were also 20 kids ages 14-18. I was responsible for finding homes for everyone, so I stayed busy with all that entailed. It was amazing getting to know these incredible people. The girls were troopers to say the least. They helped me find homes, interview families and check on everyone. I hope it taught them more fully that we are all children of a loving Heavenly Father.


Thursday, September 3, 2009

Marx verses Jefferson-- you decide.

Karl Marx, the founder of modern day Communism, and some of his quotes and Thomas Jefferson, the primary writer of the US Constitution, and some of his words.

Karl Marx-- “Religion is the impotence of the human mind to deal with
occurrences it cannot understand."

"Religion is the opium of the masses.”

“The theory of Communism may be summed up in one sentence: Abolish all private property.”

“The first requisite for the happiness of the people is the abolition of religion.

“The meaning of peace is the absence of opposition to socialism.”

Thomas Jefferson--
"The democracy will cease to exist when you take away from those who are willing to work and give to those who would not."


"Most bad government has grown out of too much government."

"Experience hath shewn, that even under the best forms [of government] those entrusted with power have, in time, and by slow operations, perverted it into tyranny."

"A free people [claim] their rights as derived from the laws of nature, and not as the gift of their chief magistrate."

"The two enemies of the people are criminals and government, so let us tie the second down with the chains of the constitution so the second will not become the legalized version of the first."

And my favorite--

"Government big enough to supply everything you need is big enough to take everything you have ... The course of history shows that as a government grows, liberty decreases."

May we fight the good fight for our liberty!

I've missed my time with you...

Life as a momma is a busy life. And I have been dedicating most of my time to my little ones, husband, church, work and coupons ;0) (I love coupons!) So, my blog has fallen by the side. But, I have written many wonderful blog posts in my mind! What I write about today is one of my many passions-- freedom. I believe that God intends us to be free. As we make good decisions and rely on Him and ourselves as His children we will retain the freedom that He has bestowed upon us. Bad decisions can and will bring bondage--spiritual, emotional, economic and sometimes physical. I continue to watch and participate in the battles that are being waged in Washington. I must admit that I feel like we are losing many of our freedoms bit by bit and not noticing it at all. Many things that are happening at the federal, local and state levels have upset me, but I think the straw that put me over the edge is President Obama's plan to speak to the the nation's children. You may ask-- what is the big deal? If he is just going to ask the kids to stay away from drugs, work hard in school and make good choices, I have no problem with him speaking to my child. But, why can't he do that during a prime time speech in my home where I can hear and talk to my children about what he is saying. My other question is about the lesson plans that he has devised to go with his speech. Here are some things that he asks the teachers to discuss with the students: What is the President trying to tell me?
What is the President asking me to do?
What new ideas and actions is the President challenging me to think about? The teachers are also supposed to teach about President Obama by sharing some of his quotes from different speeches. The White House today has changed the lesson plans and I will have to look up what changes have occured, but I find the original version of this very disturbing. The Constitution does not give a President any right to address school children. As a matter of fact the Constitution does not set up government run schools-- that is left up to the states and local leaders. But, that is for another day!

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Obamacare

This from a doctor http://www.cnsnews.com/public/content/article.aspx?RsrcID=50162

Please call your representative!

Friday, July 3, 2009

I have not been able to blog recently due to all the work finding host families. I think I am close to being done though-- I need 2 more families for the entire program-- 3 weeks-- and 5 more families for half the program. That may sound like a lot to many of you, but I feel like I can see the end in sight. If you would still consider hosting I have pictures of these cute kids and would love for you have a look at who will be coming.

After everyone is placed and life slows down a little I plan on posting a tidbit about the new cap and trade bill daily. The bill is an atrocity that has already passed Congress and is headed for the Senate. The Heritage Foundation estimates that by 2020 the bill will cost the average American family of 4 $2000 more a year in taxes. And by 2036 an additional $6500 a year in taxes. It is not just, however, what it will cost us, but about the freedoms we will lose from this bill. If you want to educate yourself a little on it check out this Wall Street Journal article about the bill... http://blogs.wsj.com/environmentalcapital/2009/06/26/round-up-waxman-markey-cap-and-trade-bill-up-for-vote/ or this opinion piece... http://online.wsj.com/article/SB124597505076157449.html

I wish you a Happy 4th with one of my favorite bits about our Founding Fathers.

Have you ever wondered what happened to the 56 men whosigned the Declaration of Independence? Five signers were captured by the British as traitors, and tortured before they died. Twelve had their homes ransacked and burned. Two lost their sons serving in the Revolutionary Army; another had twosons captured. Nine of the 56 fought and died from wounds or hardships ofthe Revolutionary War. They signed and they pledged their lives, their fortunes,and their sacred honor. What kind of men were they? Twenty-four were lawyers and jurists. Eleven were merchants, nine were farmers and large plantation owners; men of means, well educated. But they signed the Declaration of Independence knowing full well that the penalty would be death if they were captured. Carter Braxton of Virginia, a wealthy planter and trader, saw his ships swept from the seas by the British Navy. He sold his home and properties to pay his debts, and died in rags. Thomas McKean was so hounded by the British that he was forced to move his family almost constantly. He served in the Congress without pay, and his family was kept in hiding. His possessions were taken from him, and poverty was his reward. Vandals or soldiers looted the properties of Dillery, Hall, Clymer, Walton, Gwinnett, Heyward, Ruttledge, and Middleton. At the battle of Yorktown, Thomas Nelson Jr, noted that the British General Cornwallis had taken over the Nelson home for his headquarters. He quietly urged General George Washington to open fire. The home was destroyed, and Nelson died bankrupt. Francis Lewis had his home and properties destroyed. The enemy jailed his wife, and she died within a few months. John Hart was driven from his wife's bedside as she was dying. Their 13 children fled for their lives. His fields and his gristmill were laid to waste. For more than a year he lived in forests and caves, returning home to find his wife dead and his children vanished. A few weeks later he died from exhaustion and a broken heart. Norris and Livingston suffered similar fates. Such were the stories and sacrifices of the American Revolution. These were not wild-eyed, rabble-rousing ruffians. They were soft-spoken men of means and education. They had security, but they valued liberty more. Standing tall, straight, and unwavering, they pledged: "For the support of this declaration, with firm reliance on the protection of the divine providence, we mutually pledge to each other, our lives, our fortunes, and our sacred honor." They gave you and me a free and independent America. The history books never told you a lot about what happened in the Revolutionary War. We didn't fight just the British. We were British subjects at that time and we fought our own government! Some of us take these liberties so much for granted, but we shouldn't. So,take a few minutes while enjoying your 4th of July holiday and silently thank these patriots. It's not much to ask for the price they paid.
Remember: freedom is never free!

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Freedom is never free

With all I see going on in Iran right now I am once again reminded of how grateful I am for freedom. I do not like the policies of our sitting president, but I am grateful for the freedom to express how I feel and for another's freedom to disagree with me. Real freedom comes, however, when we choose to follow our Heavenly Father. No government or person can take that away. Please pray for the Iranian people and that they may have the freedom they seek.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Please Heavenly Father...

There is nothing sweeter than hearing a child's prayer, but there is also nothing funnier than some of the things they prayer for...
Tonight's prayer from Hannah:
... And bless Jayden to stop saying suck in class...
And a clip of Riley's prayer:
... bless the monkey's-- ooohh, oohhh, ahhh (monkey sound effects), bless the dogs, bless the sharks, bless the sharks not to eat me...

After I put her in the bed, sang and left the room she (Riley) began to cry. I went in to see if she was okay and she said that she didn't want to go back to the beach. Those sharks must really scare her!! While we were at the beach last week she would cry any time we went near the water and plead, "go dat (that) way, mama," while pointing towards the cottage. I am going to have to work on this shark thing-- I love the beach too much!

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Heaven

I shouldn't be blogging right now. I should be curled up in my bed getting some rest after a week of no sleep at the beach. (I will post some cute pics in a couple of days!) I was so tired driving home I was afraid that I wouldn't make it with my 4 precious girls, but here we are safe thanks to prayer, Laffy Taffy, soda with caffeine (which I NEVER drink--I don't really like soda much), gum and nuts (one at a time and I can stay awake).

I already miss all my family that I just don't get to see enough, especially my brothers and sisters-- who I really adore! They are so great with my kids and we have a lot of good laughs and sometimes cries together. We pig out on food that we shouldn't eat and stay up too late, but it is so great to feel like a kid again with them. Then I went to facebook and was reminded that I needed to thank a dear friend, who served with her husband as missionaries in Boone when I lived there, for a baby gift she sent to Macy... And I thought I really miss so many people who have been so dear to me at different points in my life and then we both have to move on, but their imprint remains a part of me and we remain in touch-though never as much as I would like. And I wonder how will it be in heaven? Can we live near all the people we love? Can we live on the street with the people we love and can't seem to see often enough here in mortality? Also there are so many people I want to meet-- so many ancestors that I have researched and studied about. And so many people I have read and learned about and felt though my study the happy and dark times in their lives. I feel so overjoyed thinking about who I will be acquainted with and re-acquainted with when I walk beyond this life. I know this is all a little random-- but I am extremely tired and little random at times to begin with!!!

Monday, May 25, 2009

Pssst... Hannah can spell

Bernie and Ning Spears our wonderful, incredible next door neighbors were over eating dinner this evening. I was eating a burger with everything on it and Bernie asked if it was going to be like that Hardees commercial where the beautiful, young woman is enjoying her burger a little too much. I laughed and Ashley said that was borderline risque (the commercial). Bernie's reply was that it was beyond risque and then he spelled out that he thought is was P-O-R-N. Hannah perks up at this and says, "What does P-O-R-N spell? Porn? Mom, what's porn?" It was hilarious! We had to play it off like Bernie spelled B-O-R-N-- by the way she was not fooled. Bernie forgot that she can now spell--very well I might add. I am going to have to explain
P-O-R-N pretty soon. I guess "the talk" is not too far away. At least she will be familiar with some of the verbage.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

I cried

I can be an emotional person, although I do try to keep my emotions in check. BUT, I am not afraid to admit that American Idol-- yes, American Idol made me cry tonight. I LOVE Danny and he was sent home tonight. But, it wasn't just about him being sent home... As I listened to him sing "You Are So Beautiful to Me," a Joe Cocker song and one of my favorites, I was thinking he must be singing this to his wife (who passed away of heart problems 10 months ago in her 20's). I heard Ashley call from upstairs, "I don't know how he can sing that..." How did he sing that when his emotions must be so raw from losing her? His heart must be aching and full in so many ways...I just had to cry thinking of the beauty of our (as mortals) ability to love. I know it is soooooo cheesy and I am really probably am a cheesy person underneath my tough exterior, but I was just grateful for love and Jesus Christ. He teaches how to love completely because his love is perfect. I have been trying to love that way in all aspects of my life and fall short, but that is the other great thing-- He makes up the difference. So, all this from American Idol! Can you believe it? I really am nuttier than you all realized or maybe you did and were trying not to hurt my feelings. It is okay. I am a tough cookie. I grew up with George and Shane as brothers-- they teased me relentlessly ;0)

Now do I watch the finals? I really don't like Adam Lambert... One (a phenomenal U2 song) was awful last night. Maybe Kris can take him. He is really cute and he can sing. I am a little embarrassed. What if I am the only one who watches American Idol in my peer group? LOL. What do I care? Have you seen what I wear to take Hannah to school. If that doesn't embarrass me (or Ashley and the kids) then nothing will. Maybe I will take pictures sometime. And I complain what the kids wear--

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Seriously?

Having gone to the Seriously, so Blessed blog a few times I am not sure I really like it. Her humor though funny at times, seems a little over the top. Her latest post about blessing her babies has some truth to it, (http://seriouslysoblessed.blogspot.com/), but I have only once heard a birth story from the pulpit. And that was a new member from my mission-- who was a little nutty... Anyways, what do you think? Is she over the top? I guess, although some of those generalizations hold true, we sure aren't in Utah but in the beautiful south. Zion is where you can get to the beach or the mountains in a couple of hours and see no less than 30 Baptist churches on your way.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Jokes on me

Just an fyi... That last post... The lady on that blog was joking. I guess some people will believe anything ;0)

Monday, May 4, 2009

And you think I have it bad

My husband thinks I am a nut about couponing... Well, I have nothing on this woman-- http://seriouslysoblessed.blogspot.com/2009/05/holy-crud-couponing-rocks.html-- Katie linked me up to her blog--- WOW!

Is there such a thing as a pathological couponer?

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Motherhood

Reflecting on motherhood is such a bittersweet thing. This week is a time to remember our mothers and their love and care, but my thoughts often turn to my own children and the kind of mother I am to them. Do I teach them enough of what they will need as they grow? Will they be women of strength, integrity, love and faith? How can I give them what they need and what God wants them to have? Will they one day call me blessed?

Motherhood is little of what I expected when I began, but so much more than I could ever deserve. Sometimes all the little voices and needs seem to come all at once and I can't handle another minute and other times the soft whispers and giggles are what Heaven must be. I love it and I love them. I hope they feel it and that I can move them to be the people that I pray for them to be. Here is a poem I searched all over for that President Hinckley shared a few years back. It reflects the beauty of being a mother...

"You are the vacation I did not take;
You are the pearls I cannot buy;
You are my blue Italian lake;
You are my piece of foreign sky."

Ann Campbell "To My Child"

May we celebrate the beauty of motherhood and childhood daily...
Shannon

Monday, April 27, 2009

Summer Chinese Program

If anyone is interested I am in charge of finding host families for a Chinese Exchange Program this summer. I have had success in finding families who have adopted children from China, but I will need a few more families. The dates of the program are July 13th - August 2nd and some of you are already hosting. The students will be going to a school daily from 8-5 or so... So, you will be responsible for the students on evenings and weekends. If you can't do the entire time you can host for a week at the beginning or 2 weeks at the end or some combination like that and I will find another host family to do the rest of the time. We will have a welcome party when we bring students in and a good bye party to see them off. It does not matter if you are single, if you don't have any children at home, if your children are older or younger-- you can be a great host parent! The only thing that we ask is that they have their own bed-- same sex children can room together if you have children in your home. Having been a foreign exchange student in Spain and France this is a wonderful opportunity for everyone involved. Let me know if you are interested and have a great day!!

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

My Riley

I have been super busy the last little while with the girls, a new baby, shopping deals and my job, so I haven't posted much. BUT, Riley said the cutest thing the other day and I had to share. She makes a huge mess when she eats, so sometimes I just take off her clothes and let her eat naked. On one such day I put her in her seat and gave her the yogurt and let her go at it. Hannah, Ellie and I were in the other room when we hear Riley scream in horror,"I got it on my boobies!" (She got the yogurt on her chest.) I didn't know she even knew what boobies were. We all got a good laugh. She then went on to point out where my boobies were-- I did need a little guidance finding them. ;0) LOL